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It's the first time I've felt my empathy turning into something solid and shameful.
In my experience, grief always has the capacity to surprise you. In both beautiful and unbearable ways - sometimes at the same time.
Writing is only one of the tasks of writing, the other is believing that you can and should and have something worthwhile to say.
I mean, if you can, amazing. But if you can't, here's some suggestions.
We need better spaces and forums and Facebook isn't it.
How do you stay engaged when the process isn't fun? How do you keep the faith when you feel like everything you write is shit?