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Discussing the process feels like a possible jinx, and I suspect that this is at least part of reason people tend to be hidden and secretive.
It's the first time I've felt my empathy turning into something solid and shameful.
In my experience, grief always has the capacity to surprise you. In both beautiful and unbearable ways - sometimes at the same time.
Writing is only one of the tasks of writing, the other is believing that you can and should and have something worthwhile to say.
I mean, if you can, amazing. But if you can't, here's some suggestions.
We need better spaces and forums and Facebook isn't it.